The ability to by honest with other people starts with your ability to be honest with yourself and your ego. Can you achieve the witness position?

Why are we here? Why should I care... Why is the sky blue when its all in me? Who is out there?

When you meet someone, you try to look for the best in them. But what do you do when they come from the shallow end of the gene pool. Their idea of fun is killing things, or smoking pot for hours/days. Sigh....